The children of the Norman
family, the richest family in the area, were largely educated at home in their own schoolroom. A governess was employed to teach the daughters and younger sons. The boys in the family went away to boarding school at the age of seven or eight.
George
Warde Norman wrote rather disparaging about the governesses employed to teach
his sisters. “Miss Matthesius was a plain course woman, little calculated,
I should say, to educate young ladies. Miss Long was a lusty woman of 45,
motherly in appearance and character. In short, an excellent person but of
slight knowledge and competence, ignorant of how to teach even the little she
knew.” Of Caroline Thelluson, he wrote, “I recollect her arrival and
first entrance into the library and admired her pleasing countenance and pretty
figure.”
Mr Norman
wrote that his mother's efforts to teach him in his early days were
unsuccessful, so much so that at the age of seven and a half, he was unable to
read and knew little more than his letters. He was sent to a school run by the
Reverend James Smith, a curate, who kept a school for about 10 boys in Elton.
Mr Norman wrote later that he knew little of the business of education but was
however kind and honourable and eager to do his best. School hours were long, 7
to 9, 10 to 1 and 3 to 5 plus something to do in the evening. The boys were
instructed in military drill, each having a musket and a bayonet.
He was a
border and cried for hours as he begged his mother not to send him. During his
time at Elton and Eton (where he went after Elton) Mr Norman did not recollect
his parents ever visiting him. The groom rode over once a week or fortnight to
see that all was well. He wrote of Eton, “The system of instruction in the
school was as bad as it could be - not a line of mathematics - no modern
language.” This would have particularly annoyed him because he made his
money in international trade and went on to
speak fluent Norwegian, French, and
Italian.
His son,
George Herman Norman was
eight when he was sent away to
a school at Lee, kept by a Miss Hart. A year later he was sent with his brother
Charles to a school in Cheam (c1840.) He then went to a preparatory school
near the Woolwich Arsenal to
prepare for a career in the artillery.
In 1845, he
was sent to the
military college at
Sandhurst as it was decided that a career in the infantry was better; he had not
done well enough in his studies to be sure of a place in the artillery. He left
Sandhurst at 17. His studies there included Euclid, plain and solid geometry,
geometry, calculus, analytical geometry, etc, field fortification, military
surveying, the French German and Latin languages and general history.
While at Sandhurst, he wrote in a letter to his grandmother, “Two cadets ran away from
here last night - they have sent dragoons [soldiers] after them.”